Examine your religion and beliefs from all perspectives. Take your time and be thorough. Don't react and shut your mind down when you read things you disagree with. Just gather information without judgment. Do this for weeks and even months if necessary.
Share what you know with everyone, especially family and friends in your local congregations. You will need to be 'discreet' just like the faithful and 'discreet' slave.
Love and forgive those who have sinned against you just like Jesus forgave his executioners. They know not what they're doing. Luke 23:34; Luke 6:37
Read your Bible without referencing Watchtower literature.
Pray. Ask Jehovah for wisdom and guidance. Listen to His voice. Always put God first.
If you are confused and emotionally upset, we know exactly how you feel. All of us felt the same way. What we discovered is this. Those who are faithful to God are rewarded with eternal love and eternal life.
The Bible promises eternal life for those who love God with ALL their heart, mind, soul, and strength, and their neighbors as themselves. Luke 10:25-37;
If you got baptized as a JW after 1984, consider what you agreed to do in your baptism vows. Ask Jehovah for forgiveness. Repent. Abandon obedience to Elders and the Governing Body. Love them. Respect them. But do not obey. Put God first and you will never be alone.